Unemployment #4: Taking objective notice of how everyone around you with a job is doing piss poor work
January 26, 2011 § 3 Comments
When you’re only applying for the most basic of jobs (the ones you can see on your daily job hunting treks), you find yourself wondering how that person at Starbucks that took 30 seconds to greet you because they were talking to their work buddy is STILL working there.
Relax. This is just the desperation permeating your touchy touchy nerves.
Breathe and stop (Q-Tip offers sweet advice). Agitation comes easily with unemployment. Irritability is unavoidable. And yes, you probably could do a better job navigating the register than that new girl at the gas station that you just asked last month whether they were hiring, but CHILL.
Take a step back. Has much really changed? At some point in your employment history you thought, no, you KNEW that you could do a better job than the person above you. Remember your last job? You probably scoffed at the idea of minimum wage. “Been there, done that.”
Well, you might have to be there and do that all over again. Get over it. Thinking that you “deserve” something more than someone else is bullshit. Patience, time, and focus are what you need to keep trucking. Success is measured not on what you become, but how you come into yourself. Alright, I even cringed a bit over that one.
Anyway, you can’t stay unemployed forever. We hope.
Keep your poise and aim to grow into something like this hepcat: